Hi I'm Tonya, creator and host of the Not So Darlin podcast, an influencer, connector, model, and self-described late bloomer! At age 44 my life has come together thanks to a strong sense of community and helping others, along with my love of beauty and style. My not so darlin brand mantra is courtesy of my past 'not so perfect' moments in life and for which I'm actually very grateful, Why? Because they've pushed me forward to both my personal and professional growths. Please join me as I navigate what lies ahead - the good and the not-so-good - while staying positive, powerful and productive in the present.

Enjoy the ride!