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Hi, I'm Tonya, a Kentucky-born model, influencer, blogger, podcast host, wife, and teenage boy mom - whew!- who very often finds life 'not so darlin'. But that's OK because in my opinion perfect is LAME. I invite you to join me as I navigate being a 40-something woman finding her passions and purposes, while staying positive and always looking to grow, especially with my Not So Darlin podcast on which like-minded women and men share their own life experiences.

Enjoy the ride!